Why “Try Harder” Feels So Good
John Will Graham John Will Graham

Why “Try Harder” Feels So Good

Illusions feel as real as the truth. Often, we are so familiar with them that we forget what the truth even looks like, or if we ever knew it at all.

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4 Ways We Wear Ourselves Out
John Will Graham John Will Graham

4 Ways We Wear Ourselves Out

The “try harder” way always comes back to control. Every push, plan, or promise we make is a quiet way of saying: If I do this right, I’ll be enough, I’ll be loved, I’ll be spiritual, I’ll be safe.

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The Try Harder Trap
John Will Graham John Will Graham

The Try Harder Trap

We leave church with the same message each week: try harder, do better, be more disciplined.

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